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Just a thought; did you ever consider that no one cares that you are out there? You are the one who seems to need the attention and drama. The rest of us are a little busy living our lives. Be whatever you want but don’t expect others to celebrate with you. No one is cheering my wife and I sleeping together. Just live life to the fullest. Again, others just don’t care or hate you and if they do, they aren’t worth your time and energy.

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Sound a bit salty for someone who doesn’t care. “Needs the attention and drama”.

“No one is cheering my wife and I sleeping together. “

You have a “wife” dude. In the US, like in many other places, people are generally raised to believe “marriage” with someone of the other gender is sacred. You were likely cheered on your whole life to have sex with a wife.

Cultural oblivion.

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Yeah, swing and miss. Worked with and been friends with the alphabet community since I can remember. The point which I guess you missed was, be with who you want but why do you need attention? Do you need validation from others and if so, you need to wonder why?

As for cheering on sex with my wife, not sure how you do things but what happens in our house is our business. It should be the same for everyone. No cheering needed!

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If a person doesn’t need “validation from others” they are a freak. Social affirmation is a pillar of psychological well-being for humans that aren’t defects. I don’t think you could have any friends from the “alphabet community” if you are perplexed why humans need attention.

Some people just seem to be wildly ignorant of their own needs, as you appear to be. I hope you enjoy the rest of the day with your hegemonic culture and government sanctioned sexual partner.

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