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As an example:

Look up the work of Daryl Davis and his outreach to KKK members. He 'collects' robes from former Klansmen who have changed their ways. Mr Davis is a Black blues musician.

What is his secret to deprogramming Klansmen? He listens to them - actual listening, not scanning their argument to find a way to 'win.' He is very clear about not expressing agreement or approval for ideas that he opposes but he truly listens to them. When they feel heard they are open to change.

We need to raise a generation of Daryl Davis's not people who feel attacked just because someone else disagrees on which flavor of ice cream is best.

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I've watched many interviews with Daryl Davis and his documentary, Accidental Courtesy, was incredible. He really is an extraordinary man.

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Thanks. You had me at "blues musician", and reading about his method of engaging with others with opposing views is a major bonus. Thanks for the reference.

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