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Adrian Gaty's avatar

I truly appreciate what you’re trying to do! But respectfully, informed consent is kinda a joke. I remember “consenting” a very intelligent high powered attorney (she had her work laptop with her, typing away, while in her hospital gown in the gurney ) for a gallbladder removal. Went over in detail all the side effects, alternatives etc… then at the end she asked, completely straight, “but if you take my bladder out how will I be able to pee?”

We medical people think things are obvious sometimes, but they’re not, and real informed consent is illusory. The patients trust us and trust our judgment and training.

Which is why even opening this mutilatory medicine up to the legitimizing language of informed consent is the wrong approach, I think. Just stop castrating/sterilizing children! Embrace the power of “no”…

And don’t play along with the National lampoon theory of suicidality:

https://gaty.substack.com/p/trans-substantiation-part-3

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Beeswax's avatar

Informed consent is impossible for a child, because children can't take the long view. Insight and self-awareness are traits that evolve as the brain develops. If you don't know who you are, you are literally uninformed and cannot possibly give informed consent. For this reason alone, children should never be allowed to medically transition. There's one important thing we can do right now to change the picture, and that is to challenge the ban against psychotherapy, which WPATH has cynically redefined as "conversion therapy."

One of the common complaints detransitioners have is that they were unaware, until after they had medically transitioned, that their so-called gender dysphoria was really caused by trauma and negative attitudes they had suppressed. Childhood sexual abuse and incest are common drivers. So too internalized homophobia and misogyny. The large percentage of autistic kids desiring to transition is well-known, but the kids themselves don’t always know it.

The transition process usually begins by visiting a "rubber stamper," otherwise known as a gender therapist. After one or two short visits, the would-be trans person receives affirmation of their gender identity plus a prescription for puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones. No discussion of underlying motivations will be initiated by the therapist, because that would be conversion therapy. The chance to gain any insight into what might be driving the momentous decision to transition is denied. Thus, hopeful, trusting, young people end up flying blind into a brick wall. Only after they're a bit older and wiser are they shocked into awareness. The emotional devastation, despair, rage, and feelings of betrayal that these detransitioners experience as they try to figure out how to go forward with a broken body, are grounds enough for malpractice. Let me repeat: if you don’t know yourself, you are not informed.

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